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![So... I asked you to pick a word that you think can describe “alone” in your own version last time. Remember your answer? I wrote a post on the blog to share mine because “aloneness” was my favorite state of mind last May.
Here’s excerpt from the post, though:
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One word I’d associate with the state of being alone is: Okay. Being alone is okay. It’s not an extraordinary power, but it won’t hurt to face it as part of our daily life too.
If you hate being alone, that'd be alright too. I'm quite familiar with the discomfort. I won't be liking my sleepless, sobbing-out-of-despair memory either. It would've been nice to have companies when you're sick. Hugs are precious too, especially from the ones you loved the most. However, wanting to have a supportive community around you is not a separating factor between you and the acceptance of aloneness. You can be both longings for social interaction and at the same time feeling content with yourself. It is okay to know that sometimes you'd miss your friends or family while being on your own, too. Some might need more solitary moment than the others, and our job is to measure how much you need to feel healthy and balanced. [..] I enjoy shopping alone, driving alone, wander around alone... but not always. It is okay to be alone, but it is also fun to be with others. I've learned to make my aloneness a conscious decision, not a problem. And the perspective of not fearing the moment I spent alone has been truly liberating.
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(Not so sure if many of you still read blog nowadays. Heck, I’m not so sure that this caption is being read up to this point —but if you reached this bottom: thank you. You give me hope. Please keep being an avid reader. All your life. Because that’s what make your heart keeps beating. And it matters. 🌻♥️)](https://static1.squarespace.com/static/53401b8be4b056226a564088/59415893db29d6b6a479740b/5b38ecd139de24289962f351/1530457313064/)
